Stop Letting One Person Control Every Conversation

别让一个人掌控每一次对话

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

2026-08-11

34 分钟
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Some conversations test your patience. Others test your character. In this call-in episode, I answer your questions about staying calm when emotions run high, setting boundaries with the people you love, handling conflict with confidence, and responding without losing yourself. We talk about how to handle a spouse who won't stop talking, how to tell your friends you hate texting and want them to call you instead, what to do when a parent refuses to use your chosen name, how to navigate political disagreements with family, and whether it's wrong to expect financial help from a wealthy sibling. Leave me a voicemail to be featured on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/ask-jefferson Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/newsletter Thank you to our sponsors: Pendulum: Go to https://pendulumlife.com/jefferson and use code JEFFERSON for up to 20% off your first order. Gusto: Go to https://gusto.com/jefferson and use code JEFFERSON to get three months free when you run your first payroll. BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/topic **Chapters:** 0:00 How to Handle a Spouse Who Talks Too Much 6:40 How to Tell Friends You Hate Texting 12:15 When Your Parent Refuses to Use Your Name 21:13 Navigating Political Disagreements With Family 28:45 Expecting Financial Help From a Wealthy Sibling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • I kind of snuck out to ask you a secret question

  • because my husband gets hurt about this, but he talks so much.

  • Like he just won't, like stops talking.

  • And I feel like the only way I can say anything is to interrupt him.

  • He's sweet.

  • He's the honey.

  • He just is one of those people that doesn't pause and one thing links to the next.

  • I don't know how to...

  • Have like a back and forth conversation with him.

  • We've been married 26 years, Jefferson.

  • But what do I do?

  • Like he doesn't even have awareness of how he's controlling the entire conversation because he just won't stop talking.

  • And if I say anything and I interrupt, he says, wait, I'm still talking.

  • Wait till I finish.

  • And it's driving me crazy.

  • Help me.

  • I love him.

  • I don't not love him, but it makes it very fatiguing to have a one-way conversation every time we talk.

  • Thanks, Jefferson.

  • How do I know if you answer?