292: It's Not about the Dishes with Shane Birkel

292: 与肖恩·伯克尔无关的菜肴

The Couples Therapist Couch

2026-06-20

31 分钟
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This episode is brought to you by Alma. Visit https://helloalma.com/dg/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=privatepractice to learn more Sign up for the June 2026 Cohort of Shane's Certified Couples Intensive Training (CIT): https://cit.shanebirkel.com/ Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this solo episode, Shane talks why it's not about the dishes. Hear why most of our emotional reactions aren't about what's happening right now, how to recognize carried emotions vs. present emotions, a modern look at our survival strategies, whether to do family of origin work with your clients, and why emotions often come up in financial conversations.
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  • what's happening to you right now, it is real.

  • And it's also connected to something much older.

  • Welcome to the couples therapist couch, the podcast for couples therapists, marriage counselors,

  • and relationship coaches to explore the practice of couples therapy.

  • And now your host, Shane Burkle.

  • Hey, everybody, welcome back to the couples therapist couch.

  • This is Shane Burkle.

  • And this is the podcast that's all about the practice of couples therapy.

  • Thank you so much for tuning in.

  • I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist

  • and the goal of this podcast is to help you learn how to more effectively work with couples

  • and possibly even learn how to have a better relationship.

  • The episode this week is brought to you by Alma.

  • They make it easy to get credentialed with major insurance plans at enhanced reimbursement rates.

  • Alma handles all of the paperwork and guarantees payment within two weeks.

  • Visit helloalma.com or click on the link in the show notes to learn more.

  • Today, I'm going to talk about something that's incredibly important for us as human beings

  • and specifically for relationships.

  • Most of the emotional reactions that show up for us as humans

  • in couples therapy are not actually about what's happening right now at that moment.