How To Stop Performing For People Who Don't Even Matter | Lewis Howes

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  Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

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  So here's a question I get, and there's a sneaky version of control that most people don't notice.

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  It's the need to control how others see you.

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  So how do you overcome this?

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  Well, the answer is this is not easy because this one kept me stuck for many years.

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  This was one of my biggest.

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  Fears, biggest insecurities, was worrying about the opinions of other people.

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  What are people thinking about me?

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  What do they say about me?

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  If I posted this in a certain way, I might get negative comments.

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  A lot of times early in my business career, I was performing.

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  I was overanalyzing.

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  I was worried.

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  And I was performing for my audience, for my peers, for people I didn't even know and people I didn't even care to like.

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  And when you need to manage how every person perceives you.

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  You're not living your life.

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  You're not in flow.

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  You're not in freedom.

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  You're casting yourself in a movie for other people.

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  And the moment I stopped trying to be impressive and started really just, how can I be myself?

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