Body Language Expert: 6 Psychological Tricks to Turn Awkwardness into Confidence

肢体语言专家:6个心理技巧将尴尬转变为自信

The Mel Robbins Podcast

2026-09-26

1 小时 22 分钟
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Do you want to know how to talk to anyone with ease and confidence? In this episode, you will learn science-backed psychological tricks to be more successful, charismatic, and influential today. Today, Mel is bringing back one of the most tactical and empowering conversations ever on The Mel Robbins Podcast, with a brand-new introduction and new insights for right now. Vanessa Van Edwards is a behavioral researcher, bestselling author, and the founder of Science of People, a behavior lab that studies high achievers and the science of confidence, charisma, communication, and body language. She also teaches at Harvard University’s Professional and Executive Development program.  Her research shows that your body is communicating before you ever say a word. And with a few simple changes, you can start showing up with more confidence immediately. You’ll learn exactly what to do with your shoulders, your hands, your voice, and even where you stand in a room so you feel less awkward and more powerful. You’ll also learn why some conversations feel effortless while others fall flat, how highly influential people communicate differently, and the small psychological cues that can help you connect with almost anyone. In this episode, you’ll learn: -The best place to stand at a networking event if you do not know anyone -Why standing near the entrance is one of the worst places to meet people -The conversation starter that never works -How where you sit at work can boost - or hurt - your productivity -The A-B-C-D exercise that can help you work with your strengths, protect your energy, and prevent burnout Whether you want to become a better leader, make new friends, land the job, or simply feel more confident in the moments that matter, you’ll leave this episode with practical tools you can start using immediately. For more resources related to today’s  episode, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked the episode, check out this one next: How to Talk to Difficult People: Proven Strategies to Stop Arguments & Feel Connected Again   Connect with Mel:   Order Mel’s product, Pure Genius ProteinGet Mel’s newsletter, packed with tools, coaching, and inspiration.Get Mel’s #1 bestselling book, The Let Them Theory Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram Mel's TikTok Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast.

  • Oh my gosh, you are going to love this episode today,

  • because today you're going to learn how to use body language

  • and six psychological tricks that can help you turn awkwardness, shyness, self-doubt, insecurity into confidence.

  • And you will love our expert today because she is a behavioral researcher.

  • She teaches at Harvard University's Professional and Executive Development Program.

  • She's a New York Times bestselling author, and she spent two decades sharing what you're about to learn today.

  • Her research proves that your body is communicating something before you ever say a word.

  • And when you understand how to use your body to communicate the right things, everything changes.

  • Today you're going to learn...

  • Simple body language cues that will help you communicate more confidence immediately.

  • For example, exactly where you need to stand when you walk in the room and you don't know anyone.

  • What to do with your hands when you're speaking.

  • How to carry yourself before a meeting, a date, a presentation, or an important conversation.

  • After today, you're going to know the six psychological tricks

  • that you can use so you can start building real confidence, communicate with more power,

  • and show up like the person you want to be.

  • Am I the only one who feels like choosing the right product sometimes is just so complicated?

  • Have you ever tried to read the label for something

  • and it looks like a science experiment rather than something you'd want to use?