The Secret of My Death

我之死之秘

This American Life

2026-09-14

1 小时 7 分钟
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Cryptic messages on a cell phone and a teeter-totter at a construction site: these are clues people found, trying to make sense of a death. Visit thisamericanlife.org/lifepartners to sign up for our premium subscription. (00:00:00) Prologue: Host Ira Glass talks to a guy about a crazy experiment he devised when he was a kid. It almost killed him. (5 minutes) (00:06:45) Act One: We begin with a woman whose sister has died. She has questions. Her name is Nadia Bowers, and she wrote this to someone she thinks might be of help. (17 minutes) (00:29:53) Act Two: There’s a problem with having a Facebook account after you’re dead that you’ve never, ever, ever thought about. Producer Stephanie Foo tells this story, about Dave Maher. (14 minutes) (00:45:49) Act Three: A guy goes to a funeral for someone he doesn’t know at all, and has to piece together everything about him. Producer Dana Chivvis reports. (16 minutes) Transcripts are available at thisamericanlife.org / This American Life privacy policy. / Learn more about sponsor message choices.
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  • Graham grew up in a working class town north of England.

  • And when he was 11 or 12,

  • his family moved into one of the first houses in a new development that was being built.

  • It was kind of hitting the jackpot for him at that age because all around everywhere were homes under construction,

  • which I remember this from construction sites in our neighborhood when I was a kid.

  • It was so incredibly fun.

  • This became my new playground.

  • This is Graham.

  • So I would, you know, climb on the scaffolding, do a bit of kind of amateur gymnastics, but also build stuff.

  • And the big thing amongst us kids was lighting fires.

  • And, you know, there was tar paper was one thing that burned very nicely.

  • There's actually all kinds of trouble to get into.