Knowing When To Let Go

知止而后能定

Radio Headspace

2026-09-28

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Sometimes letting go isn't difficult because we still want something. It's difficult because we remember everything it took to get here. Dora explores the sunk cost fallacy and how mindfulness can help us stop making today's decisions based solely on yesterday's investment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • Happy Monday, my good people.

  • Welcome back to another episode of Radio Headspace.

  • I'm your host, Dora Kamau.

  • Okay, have you ever invested so much time into something or someone,

  • and because of how much time you invested, you still stay committed to the cause,

  • even when it no longer served you or was no longer in your best interest?

  • Maybe it's a job or a friendship or even a personal project you decided

  • to take on that turned out to be way more work than you thought without a lot of payoff.

  • This, my friend, is called the sunken cost fallacy.

  • And usually we have a tough time moving away from these situations because we're looking back at what we've invested.

  • We get caught up in the past and we think about all the time

  • that we've spent and the energy we've put into this thing.

  • And we aren't aware of the present moment.

  • Mindfulness can give us the tools to gain that present moment

  • perspective and help us recognize what the current circumstances are showing us.

  • That it's time to move on and it's time to let up.

  • So what other factors trap us in the sunken cost fallacy?

  • Research shows that when we make a decision, at times they can be from an emotional place.

  • And if you've been meditating for a while,

  • you know that just like clouds in the sky, emotions are temporary and transient.