2026-04-20
39 分钟When you come from a place where there isn't love, it shapes your life.
And that was one of the ways that I started to notice I craved love.
I wanted to be loved.
I thought to myself, look, you've been fighting all your life about your colour and whatever.
The next person that comes into your life that loves you, embrace it.
Jackie McCarthy O'Brien has learned a lot about love over the years,
what it 's like to be raised without it and how hard it can be to accept.
She knows what it 's like to love a country that does n't love you back
and how you can make it love you by being too talented to ignore.
This is Lives Less Ordinary from the BBC World Service.
I'm Jo Fidgen.
And this is part two of Jackie's story.
Just to let you know, there is a reference to suicide.
If you missed last week's episode and have the opportunity to go back and listen, I do recommend it.
But if you'd prefer to just stay with us now, I'll fill you in.
So Jackie was born in the 1960s to Precious.
A young, unmarried Irish woman.
That was scandalous enough in conservative Catholic Ireland.
But Jackie's father from across the Irish Sea in Birmingham in England was black, and that broke another taboo.
Precious was desperate to keep Jackie, but the state and church ruled otherwise and took her baby away.