I was taken as a baby…I didn’t know who I was, part 2

我自幼便被带离……不知自己是谁,第二部分

Lives Less Ordinary

2026-04-20

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Jackie makes sporting history for Ireland and uncovers the truth about her past. Taken from her mother as a baby and raised in an Irish institution, Jackie McCarthy O’Brien grew up in silence, facing prejudice because of the colour of her skin, and with no real sense of who she was or where she belonged. Jackie shares her story over two episodes of Lives Less Ordinary. In this second part of her story, we hear how Jackie begins to build a life on her own terms. Through sport, she discovers a sense of purpose and belonging, pulling on the green jersey of Ireland and going on to make history as the first mixed-race woman to represent her country in both football and rugby. But even as she achieves this, questions about her past remain. For years, she has believed one version of her story - about her mother, her father, and where she comes from. When she finally learns the truth, it’s not what she expected. Instead of anger, she finds something else: understanding, and a deep sense of love. And alongside that, she finds the confidence to live more openly, embracing who she is, and who she loves. This programme contains a reference to suicide. If you've been affected by some of the issues that have come up in Jackie's story, and are suffering distress or despair, you could speak to a health professional, or an organisation that offers support. There are details of help available in many countries at befrienders.org Presenter: Jo Fidgen Producer: Edgar Maddicott Lives Less Ordinary is a podcast from the BBC World Service that brings you the most incredible true stories from around the world. Each episode a guest shares their most dramatic, moving, personal story. Listen for unbelievable twists, mysteries uncovered, and inspiring journeys - spanning the entire human experience. Step into someone else’s life and expect the unexpected.   Got a story to tell? Send an email to liveslessordinary@bbc.co.uk or message us via WhatsApp: 0044 330 678 2784   You can read our privacy notice here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/5YD3hBqmw26B8WMHt6GkQxG/lives-less-ordinary-privacy-notice
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  • When you come from a place where there isn't love, it shapes your life.

  • And that was one of the ways that I started to notice I craved love.

  • I wanted to be loved.

  • I thought to myself, look, you've been fighting all your life about your colour and whatever.

  • The next person that comes into your life that loves you, embrace it.

  • Jackie McCarthy O'Brien has learned a lot about love over the years,

  • what it 's like to be raised without it and how hard it can be to accept.

  • She knows what it 's like to love a country that does n't love you back

  • and how you can make it love you by being too talented to ignore.

  • This is Lives Less Ordinary from the BBC World Service.

  • I'm Jo Fidgen.

  • And this is part two of Jackie's story.

  • Just to let you know, there is a reference to suicide.

  • If you missed last week's episode and have the opportunity to go back and listen, I do recommend it.

  • But if you'd prefer to just stay with us now, I'll fill you in.

  • So Jackie was born in the 1960s to Precious.

  • A young, unmarried Irish woman.

  • That was scandalous enough in conservative Catholic Ireland.

  • But Jackie's father from across the Irish Sea in Birmingham in England was black, and that broke another taboo.

  • Precious was desperate to keep Jackie, but the state and church ruled otherwise and took her baby away.