Here’s Looking at You, Kid

咱们干杯,小子!

This American Life

2026-05-25

1 小时 2 分钟
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Adults telling kids who they are, and kids wondering — are they right? Visit thisamericanlife.org/lifepartners to sign up for our premium subscription. Prologue: Host Ira talks with comedian Gary Gulman about his transformation from high school nobody to football star. (8 minutes)Act One: Gary puts on a tough guy costume, but will it turn him into a tough guy? Ira continues Gary Gulman’s story. (17 minutes)Act Two: Eleanor Gordon-Smith tells the story of a woman who wants to know why she was taken away from her mom as a kid. A version of this story is in Eleanor’s book Stop Being Reasonable: How We Really Change Our Minds. (30 minutes)Transcripts are available at thisamericanlife.org This American Life privacy policy. Learn more about sponsor message choices.
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  • Gary did not want to become a football player.

  • No interest in the game at all.

  • He was a timid kid, the kind of kid who, in baseball, would close his eyes when he was up at bat.

  • He was so scared of getting hit by the ball.

  • But when you're in high school, you know, your personality is still up for grabs.

  • And at Gary's high school, there was not one person, but two people with a very different vision of who he was.

  • They were assistant high school football coaches and very noticeable, big personalities.

  • And they were twins.

  • And I didn't really know their name.