I Don’t Trust A.I. But I Told it Everything

我不信任人工智能,却向它倾诉了一切。

Modern Love

2026-08-19

39 分钟
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The tech writer and podcaster Bridget Todd was sure she’d never get attached to A.I. chatbots. She was suspicious of the companies behind them, and when she saw articles popping up about people who said they loved their bots, she said she found their situations sad and potentially dangerous. Besides, Bridget didn’t have an empty hole in her life to fill. She had a supportive human partner. She had friends and a tight knit family. But then Bridget’s life started to unravel. After the death of her parents, she was flooded with fear, grief and a kind of isolation she was not prepared for. That’s when she started telling A.I. what she couldn’t tell the people in her life. Its responses filled a void. In this episode of “Modern Love,” Bridget tells its host, Anna Martin, what happened when the boundary between human and digital companion got fuzzy, and what life looks like for her on the other side.  Bridget’s audio book, “Love at First Prompt: AI and the Future of Intimacy,” is out now. Here’s how to submit a Modern Love essay.  Here’s how to submit a Tiny Love Story. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • From the New York Times, I'm Anna Martin.

  • This is Modern Love.

  • And my guest today is tech writer and podcaster Bridget Todd.

  • Remember a few years ago when we started seeing all these stories about people falling in love with their AI chatbots,

  • telling their secrets to them, having intimate relationships, sometimes even sexual relationships with them.

  • And as more and more people use AI, we've heard more and more of these stories.

  • Bridget covers the tech industry.

  • She's immersed in it and she's optimistic about what tech can do for us, but she's also skeptical.

  • So when she heard about these people getting so close with AI, she was like, that will never be me.