How To Break Free From the Loser vs. Winner Identity Trap | Dr. K

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  Hi, my name is Lewis Howes, and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

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  Is there a part of your identity or ego that still gets the best of you?

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  Every day, all the time.

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  I think for me, it's being a loser.

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  That's what you believe or think?

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  Yeah, I am a loser.

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  Like, literally, I lose every day.

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  I make so many mistakes, you know?

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  Like, I failed so many classes.

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  I had to apply to medical school 120 times to get in.

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  You know, it took me three years to get into med school.

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  Even today, you know, I 'll make a YouTube video that sometimes has a million views in 10 days,

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  sometimes has 100,000 views in 10 days.

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  I am a loser.

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  So here's the other thing.

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  There are parts of the negative parts of our identity are only a problem if we make them a problem.

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  And I can accept like, of course, I'm a loser.

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  That doesn't mean I'm not also a winner.

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  I have both of these things within me.

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  Yeah.

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