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  So I went swimming this weekend for the first time in, I want to say it was 15 or 20 years.

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  Wow.

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  And for a lot of reasons, I think I never really liked pools.

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  I don't like the smell of them.

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  They kind of gross me out.

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  But I've been thinking about parenthood, actually.

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  And I've been thinking, I need to know how to swim if I'm going to have a kid.

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  So finally, I went to the pool this weekend.

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  And I was...

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  So much better than I thought I would be.

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  It reminded me that I can do things that are hard and like I can learn skills.

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  And then to also treat swimming, not as an identity, but as a skill.

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  Yeah.

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  Right.

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  It's like in Spanish, there's like Sarah versus a star.

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  Sarah is like a permanent state and a star is a condition.

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