If Fear Keeps You Safe But Stuck, Open Your Sail | Scott Barry Kaufman

恐惧虽能保你安全却让你停滞,那就扬帆起航吧 | 斯科特·巴里·考夫曼

The Daily Motivation

2026-10-24

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You don't have to wait until your fear is gone to start moving toward the life you want. Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1116DM Scott Barry Kaufman, the psychologist behind the sailboat model of human needs, told Lewis that Maslow never drew a pyramid at all. Scott sees your needs as one vessel: the boat keeps you afloat, and the sail is what moves you. When you're short on safety, you start screaming for it, and that gap quickly drains your connection and self-esteem too. Scott calls it the insecurity cycle. Patching the holes only gets you from negative 50 to zero. Growth starts when you open the sail, even nervous, the way Scott was driving six miles in a suit for the first time in a year. Pick one place where you've been waiting to feel safe, and choose exploration there anyway. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

  • I'll explain my new revised Kaufman sailboat model.

  • So my revised hierarchy of needs, there's no longer a pyramid, because Maslow never even drew a pyramid.

  • We're a whole vehicle that needs to be integrated.

  • That's why a sailboat works.

  • All the parts have to work together optimally in order for that sailboat

  • to really move in its most purposeful direction.

  • So how is yours different than his?

  • Well, it keeps the spirit of what Maslow...

  • See, remember, there was no Maslow's pyramid.

  • He never drew a pyramid.

  • If you actually...

  • People betrayed the spirit of his original theory.

  • So I'm trying to bring in the original spirit with my own flavor.

  • So in his original theory, he distinguished between the being realm of human existence and the deficiency realm.