How to Break Up with Your Bad Habits

如何戒掉你的坏习惯

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2026-04-13

33 分钟
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Breaking bad habits often feels like a test of willpower. We tell ourselves we’ll stop scrolling, eat better, or exercise more — and then fall right back into the same routines. So why is lasting change so hard? As part of our spring cleaning series, we’re revisiting a powerful episode from The Happiness Lab archives that reveals a surprising truth about behavior change: it’s not about willpower at all. Dr. Laurie Santos sits down with psychologist Wendy Wood to explore what the science of habits really says about why we get stuck — and how we can finally change. Along the way, we hear the remarkable story of American soldiers in Vietnam who abruptly overcame heroin addiction after returning home, offering a powerful clue about how habits really work. If you’re looking to break a bad habit or build a better one, this episode shows how small changes to your environment can make lasting change feel almost automatic. Experts Mentioned: Wendy Wood, Provost Professor of Psychology and Business, University of Southern California. Dr. Richard Ratner, Clinical Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Health, George Washington School of Medicine and Health Sciences Resources Mentioned: Good Habits, Bad Habits: The Science of Making Positive Changes That Stick, by Wendy Wood (2019) “How Do People Adhere to Goals When Willpower Is Low? The Profits (and Pitfalls) of Strong Habits,” by David T. Neal, Wendy Wood, and Aimee Drolet (Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2013) “The Pull of the Past: When Do Habits Persist Despite Conflict with Motives?,” by David T. Neal, Wendy Wood, Mengju Wu, and David Kurlander (Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2011) “Ironic Processes of Mental Control,” by Daniel M. Wegner (Psychological Review, 1994) “How Permanent Was Vietnam Drug Addiction?,” by Lee N. Robins, Darlene H. Davis, and David N. Nurco (American Journal of Public Health, 1974) CBS News Lottery Draft 1969 (Archival Footage) "G.I. Heroin Addiction Epidemic in Vietnam" (The New York Times, 1971) G.I. Junkie (Documentary, 1971) Related Episodes: "A New Hope" "You Can Change" "Happiness Lessons of the Ancients: Sikhism and Daily Habits" See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Hey, Happiness Lab listeners.

  • Welcome back to our special series on spring cleaning your happiness.

  • In honor of this season of new beginnings,

  • we 're clearing out all our outdated behaviors and mindsets so that we can refresh our emotional junk drawers,

  • so to speak.

  • We 'll also be doing our own Happiness Lab closet refresh as we head back into the episode archives to find throwback insights

  • from past episodes that you might have missed.

  • And in today's episode from the archives, we're diving into a very tough spring cleanup job.

  • We'll be exploring how to freshen up our habits.

  • Now, I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that there 's at least one routine that you do on autopilot all the time,

  • even though it makes you feel kind of crappy.

  • Wouldn't you like to break free?

  • To toss out that bad habit like an old pair of jeans and replace it

  • with a routine that fits your current goals a bit better?

  • Sounds awesome in theory, you're probably thinking.

  • But is it really possible to break a well-learned bad habit?

  • Turns out, yes, totally possible.

  • But the process is way easier if you have a more nuanced understanding of the way

  • our brains structure habits and how they really work.

  • And that is what you're going to learn in our episode today.