Money Conversations Everyone Should Be Having Ft. Vivian Tu

每个人都应该进行的金钱对话:薇薇安·图访谈

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

2026-09-11

47 分钟
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Money might be one of the hardest conversations we avoid having. In this episode, I sit down with money expert Vivian Tu to talk about why money feels so uncomfortable, how the way we grew up shapes our financial habits, and how to have better conversations about money with your partner, your kids, and even your boss. Vivian also shares when to bring up money while dating, who should pay on the first date, and how to ask for the raise you deserve. Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ Leave me a voicemail to be featured on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/ask-jefferson  Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Thank you to our sponsors: Tiny Health: Go to https://tinyhealth.com/jefferson for $50 off your first at-home test kit. Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 20% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Order my book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on TikTok Follow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • Is there a difference in how the top talk about money versus how the bottom talk about money?

  • People who are at the bottom will say, we can't afford that.

  • People at the top will say, it's not currently in the budget.

  • It's the exact same thing.

  • And unfortunately, for a very long time, we have equated your value as a human being with your net worth.

  • So when you have debt, we consider it a moral failure.

  • We think you're a bad person.

  • So I get this job at JP Morgan.

  • I was very literally only sitting next to rich people.

  • And I hate to say it, they're doing it better than us.

  • Because when they talk about money, they have more to compare.

  • At this point in time, should we be asking for Or should we just be thankful that we have jobs?

  • Loyalty to your company.

  • Let me be very clear.

  • Why is it that talking about money seems to be harder than talking about everything else?

  • Because we've been conditioned that way, right?

  • So here's the story.

  • We're sitting around the family table.

  • Little Johnny goes, Mom, Dad, how much is our house worth?

  • You're like, Johnny, please don't ask that.