2026-09-02
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This is The Opinions, a show that brings you a mix of voices from New York Times opinion.
You've heard the news.
Here's what to make of it.
I'm Vishakha Darbha and I'm an audio producer on this show.
And today I'm in conversation with New York Times opinion writer Michelle Cottle.
So Michelle usually covers politics,
but in the last few years, she's also written several pieces related to aging in America.
Most recently, she wrote a personal piece about caregiving for her father
in the final months of his life and the troubling state of the U.S.
Caregiving system.
More than 2,000 people responded to her essay to share their own stories.
I took care of my husband for 15 months at home after he had spent 179 days in the hospital.
And I took care of my father who had congestive heart failure, stage 3 kidney disease,
and later was diagnosed with brain cancer.
My mom, currently 99, arrived legally blind, hard of hearing, and with congestive heart failure.
Now, Michelle and I have something in common.