Do You Feel Loved?

你感到被爱了吗?

Hidden Brain

2026-04-21

1 小时 33 分钟
PDF

单集简介 ...

What’s the difference between being loved and feeling loved? Psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky joins us to discuss the distinction, and how we can create a stronger feeling of closeness in our relationships. Then, in our latest installment of Your Questions Answered, psychologist Greg Walton returns to answer listeners’ questions about negative thought spirals.As individuals and as a society, we often overlook a strategy that can help us to improve our lives. We discuss this tool in a new video on Hidden Brain's YouTube channel. Please check it out, and let us know what you think! Episode illustration by Getty Images for Unsplash+ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
更多

单集文稿 ...

  • Hey there, before we start today's episode, I wanted to share something I'm really excited about.

  • Hidden Brain is now on YouTube.

  • We just dropped an episode exploring a strategy that can help us to solve problems and save time,

  • but it 's a strategy almost all of us overlook.

  • I hope you'll check it out.

  • You can find us at youtube. com slash at hidden brain, or just follow the link in today's show notes.

  • Okay, here's today's show.

  • This is Hidden Brain.

  • I'm Shankar Vedanta.

  • In Shakespeare's play, The Merchant of Venice,

  • Portia is a beautiful, wealthy woman, and she is looking for the right man to marry.

  • Her father has decreed that a successful suitor must pass a test.

  • Each of Portia's admirers is presented with three caskets made of gold, silver, and lead.

  • Portia's portrait is inside one.

  • Suitors have to pick the right casket.

  • The gold casket is inscribed with the words, Who chooseth me shall gain what many men desire.

  • The Prince of Morocco selects it and discovers it's the wrong choice.

  • On the silver casket are the words, who chooseth me shall get as much as he deserves.

  • The Prince of Aragon opts for this casket.

  • He too loses out.