When It's Okay to Lie

当谎言何以为宜

Hidden Brain

2026-03-31

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Should you tell a harsh truth if it will only cause pain? Or is it sometimes kinder to keep someone in the dark? Psychologist Emma Levine explores the unwritten rules that guide when people feel it’s acceptable to lie — and what those choices reveal about trust, harm, and our deepest moral values. In our companion Hidden Brain+ episode, we explore ways to bridge the gap between the many lies we condone in practice, and the lying we claim to hate. If you're a subscriber, that episode is called “Telling The Truth About Lies.” If you're not yet a Hidden Brain+ subscriber, please visit support.hiddenbrain.org or apple.co/hidden brain for a free seven-day trial.  Illustration by Masantocreative for Unsplash+ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • This is Hidden Brain.

  • I'm Shankar Vedanta.

  • It's a story that is familiar to every American.

  • A young George Washington chops down his father's prized cherry tree.

  • When his father confronts him about the deed, young George doesn't hide.

  • He doesn't deflect.

  • He doesn't minimize.

  • I cannot tell a lie, he says.

  • I did cut it.

  • Instead of scolding him, George's father embraces him.

  • He declares that his son's honesty is worth more than a thousand trees.

  • This tale, first popularized in the early 19th century, is one of America's most cherished moral parables.

  • It celebrates honesty and the courage that often accompanies it.

  • Yet the story's enduring power rests on a deep irony.

  • The parable is almost certainly a fabrication, a lie invented to teach the importance of telling the truth.

  • The myth-makers behind the story believe that fiction could serve a higher truth,

  • that people might be inspired to be truthful by the story of a hero who could not tell a lie.

  • The story of George Washington and the cherry tree reminds us that the motivations behind honesty

  • and deception are rarely straightforward.

  • Lies can sometimes uphold moral ideals, and truths can sometimes be wielded to wound.