#196- Yaling Jiang: Through Chinese Eyes

Yaling Jiang is a writer and researcher helping people understand China through real individuals, rather than through headlines or stereotypes.  Yaling is a former journalist and translator and founder of the popular newsletter Following the Yuan.  She is also the founder of the research and strategy consultancy ApertureChina.  Today, Yaling joins us to talk about what it really means to explain China to the outside world—and why seeing Chinese people as individuals matters.  We talk about what it’s like to have your country, your culture, and your own identity be misunderstood.  We also talk about the growing desire among Chinese women to have more control over the lives they choose to live.  We talk about dating, marriage, motherhood, gender expectations and the fear of becoming “leftover”.  We explore how younger generations are challenging traditional norms and whether China’s changing social attitudes are pointing toward a more equal future.  We also talk about the loneliness of a world that feels increasingly divided, and Yaling’s hope that we can learn to see each other as individuals rather than stereotypes. It’s a conversation about identity, agency, belonging—and the fragile hope that we might find our way back to each other. ____________________ 00:00 Name pronunciation 02:40 Yaling’s mission: human stories about China 11:30 Growing up in a globalized China 14:00 Gender, ambition, and what Chinese women want 18:00 Dating in Shanghai and the numbers problem 23:00 “Leftover women” and changing expectations 32:50 Are gender norms actually changing? 39:00 Marriage, birth rates, and who carries the cost 44:00 Egg freezing as a safety net 49:00 Dating across cultures 55:00 History, race, and the “inferiority complex” 63:00 Asian representation in Western film and TV 71:00 Race and identity from China to the UK 79:00 Being called “banana” 85:00 Assimilation and the trauma of belonging 94:00 Empathy as the takeaway 98:00 Outro ____________________ 下载节目文字版: Episode Transcripts ____________________ If you enjoy this show don't forget to leave a rating and subscribe! 小红书: THD The Honest Drink Follow Us On IG: @thehonestdrink_ Join Us On WeChat: THD_Official 合作: sponsor@thdpod.com Find us on: Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, 小宇宙, 喜马拉雅, 网易云音乐, 小红书, Bilibili or anywhere you get your podcasts. 前往小宇宙评论区与主播互动