How to have better conversations

如何进行更有效的对话

Life Kit

2026-07-28

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Called 'supercommunicators,' these people have the exceptional ability of creating authentic connections with others — just by listening and talking. This episode originally ran on Februrary 20, 2024  Follow us on Instagram: @nprlifekitSign up for our newsletter here.Have an episode idea or feedback you want to share? Email us at lifekit@npr.orgSupport the show and listen to it sponsor-free by signing up for Life Kit+ at plus.npr.org/lifekit See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for sponsorship and to manage your podcast sponsorship preferences. NPR Privacy Policy
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  • There was a study that was done at Harvard Business School

  • where they asked students, before they had a conversation with a stranger,

  • they asked all the students to write down three topics that they thought they could discuss.

  • This took like 10 seconds, right?

  • People would write down like, you know, this weekend's game and what TV shows I watch.

  • Just little dumb throwaway things.

  • And then they went and they had conversations with strangers.

  • And everyone would put the card away.

  • Many of them would put it in their back pocket.

  • And the topics they had jotted down...

  • Often never came up.

  • But the fact that they were there almost

  • overwhelmingly made all of the participants feel less anxious about those discussions.

  • And as a result, those discussions went much, much better.