How to Stop Work From Taking Over Your Life

如何让工作不再主宰你的生活

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2026-03-16

43 分钟
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Work doesn’t end when the workday does. Even after we close our laptops, our minds keep replaying awkward meetings, looming deadlines, and unfinished to-do lists. Over time, that “always on” mentality can quietly hijack our relationships, our health, and our happiness. Dr. Laurie sits down with psychologist and bestselling author Guy Winch (Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life) to explore the science of work stress — and why so many of us get stuck in fight-or-flight mode long after we’ve left the office.  Plus, Ben Walter, host of “The Unshakeables” and CEO of Chase for Business, shares what he’s learned from working with small business owners who don’t have the option to simply “clock out.” If you’ve ever felt like work is bleeding into everything, this episode offers science-based tools to help you take your life back. Resources mentioned in this episode: Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life "Burnout: A Review of Theory and Measurement" "The Relationship Between Workplace Stressors and Mortality and Health Costs in the United States" "How Small Businesses Drive the American Economy" "Small Business Facts" “The Unshakeables” "Yerkes-Dodson Law Of Arousal And Performance" “The Use of Imagery to Manipulate Challenge and Threat Appraisal States in Athletes” “Rebuilding After a Blaze: Luna Gourmet Coffee & Tea” See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Pushkin.

  • When it comes to feeling happier, the approach we take to work really matters.

  • The average American spends about half of their waking hours on the job,

  • which even if you're lucky enough to love what you do, can feel like a lot.

  • But work doesn't always stop at the end of the workday.

  • And I'm not just talking about all the unpaid sorts of work we have to do,

  • the cooking and cleaning and caring for family members.

  • I'm talking about the paid work that winds up creeping into the little free time we do have.

  • The metaphor I use is a pinball machine.

  • The work shoots out and then it starts dinging to your relationships, to your personal life,

  • to your thoughts, to your leisure, to your ability to recover.

  • This is psychologist, podcaster, and best-selling author Guy Winch.

  • Guy is an expert on managing all kinds of tough emotions.

  • But his latest book, Mind Over Grind, How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life,

  • is all about strategies we can use to create a healthier work-life balance.

  • Something Guy admits he wasn't always great at.

  • Literally a year into my professional career, I was totally burnt out.

  • I recognized that in an incident where I was in the elevator with a neighbor and it stalled between floors.

  • And the neighbor went into a panic.

  • And here I am, a psychologist.