Overcoming Rejection: 100-Day Experiment That Changed Everything

克服拒绝:改变一切的100天实验

Good Life Project

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2015-04-14

50 分钟
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"Creativity [happens] not necessarily because we have no limits, but because we have found ways to solve problems within limits." Growing up in China, Jia Jiang dreamed of coming to the United States to make his mark as an entrepreneur. But his first attempt found him living with criminals in small-town Louisiana as an exchange student. Jia didn't give up, though. He found a new family who cared, then devoted everything he had to build his career. Until he came face to face with a crippling fear of rejection. If you're human, you're probably not all that different. To overcome this fear, Jia mounted a stunning and very public 100-day rejection adventure that not only "cured" his fear, but also turned him into a viral video phenomenon, speaking and author of the new book, Rejection Proof. This story is both inspiring and vulnerable as Jia Jiang takes us behind the scenes of what it looks like to stare rejection down. Follow Jia: Website | YouTube | Twitter Check out our offerings & partners:  My New Book SparkedMy New Podcast SPARKEDVisit Our Sponsor Page For a Complete List of Vanity URLs & Discount Codes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • We're all held back by this rejection in some way, our fear of rejection.

  • It's the type of fear that we keep telling ourselves that we shouldn't try this.

  • People wouldn't like it.

  • I would seem silly, but I want the people to not have that fear.

  • So before I dive into the actual introduction for this week's episode, you may hear a little bit of noise in the background.

  • It's funny, I call it noise because I'm from New York City, but what I'm talking about is all sorts of tweets and birds and nature sounds.

  • I'm recording this, actually, at the crack of dawn, sitting on the side of a mountain in Costa Rica, where we're on retreat for our good life project immersion.

  • And it's very early.

  • The rooster's time clock is a little bit off.

  • He starts crowing here at about 330 in the morning, which is kind of funny, but it's a beautiful, incredible place to be.

  • So if you hear all sorts of nature sounds in the background, that's what's going on.

  • It's not actually horns or things that you might normally see in New York city, where I normally do these.

  • So today's conversation really loved.

  • Jia Jiang is a guy who came to the United States from China at a very young age on his own because he was obsessed with the possibility of entrepreneurship.

  • And when he got here, he discovered not only that he ended up in a den of criminals, but that he was terrified.

  • He was shut down by the idea of rejection.

  • And rather than running from it, he actually ran into it and launched what he called his rejection project, and every day started challenging himself to be rejected.

  • What came out of that is a pretty incredible adventure that's also led to a book that we're going to go into.

  • So really excited to be sitting down and sharing this conversation with Xiajiang, and I hope you guys enjoyed as well.

  • I'm Jonathan Fields.