Life-sucking Lie #2: I’m Not Good Enough.

吸食生命的谎言2:我不够好。

Good Life Project

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2015-05-28

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How often have you told yourself, "I'm not good enough, old enough, accomplished enough, credentialed enough, or any other 'enough' to get paid real money or get the gig I want more than anyone else?" Newsflash, there's a good chance you're right. It may well be true that there ARE indeed plenty of other people and organizations who are better at what you do than you are. But, there's also a dirty little secret in the world of business and success. Very often the job, opportunity, gig does not go to the most qualified person. You can still get the plum position, sweet job and serious paycheck if you understand why. In today's Good Life Riff, we're busting the old "I'm not good enough" myth and revealing what matters, oftentimes even more than qualifications. So, stop beating yourself up for being "along the road to higher value." And start understanding what people really want and what you need to give them to create the opportunities you most desire. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • You know, I'm just not smart enough.

  • There are a million smarter, more qualified, credentialed people and companies that do the exact same thing.

  • People want the best, and I'm not the best, so why bother?

  • This is something that's said to me so many times as an excuse for inaction in today's good life project short riff we're going to dive into and deconstruct this as another in the lies that keep us from success.

  • I'm Jonathan Fields.

  • This is good life project, so let's kind of dive into it and deconstruct it a little bit.

  • And rather than make this another rah rah your so cool confidence building session, let's do something a bit radical.

  • So here's the thing.

  • When you say I'm not smart enough, there are a million smarter, more qualified, credentialed people and companies that do the same thing.

  • You may be right, at least about you not being the smartest fish in the pond.

  • You may not, in fact, be the smartest, the most experienced person in your space.

  • You may be a total newbie or somewhere on the path to craft and mastery.

  • No doubt you still need to raise your skill level to a certain baseline of value before you can command value in exchange for what you offer.

  • But here's the reality about who gets the gig in the world of business, the vast majority of the time, the win goes not to the smartest, but the most responsive person.

  • The one who shows up first, the one who returns the calls or the text or the email.

  • The one who gets the need and speaks to it.

  • I cannot tell you how many times I've left a string of messages for a potential vendor saying, hey, essentially, I've got money to spend and only one calls back.

  • As an entrepreneur who's a bit obsessed with service and growth dynamics, I just don't get that.

  • But guess what?

  • That's how most people and businesses operate.