Michael Port: Inside the Mind of a Public Speaking Phenom

迈克尔·波特:公众演讲人物的内心世界

Good Life Project

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2015-09-24

1 小时 9 分钟
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The thing most people fear more than spiders and death is the very thing this week's guest, Michael Port, loves with every fiber of his being. What am I talking about? Public speaking. Port began his career as an actor, featured often on screens of all sizes, before jumping into the fitness world and then creating the Book Yourself Solid business development juggernaut and a string of bestselling books. He built an empire and, along the way, became a master not just of the screen, but of the speaking stage. There, he found his true home and built an astonishing career as an international speaker. With the launch of a provocative new book, Steal the Show and a new speaker training venture, he's on a mission to transform the world's #1 fear into an experience of awe, joy and impact. We go deep into the "real" backstory and his deeper "why" in this week's conversation. We talk about the tension between "performing" and being "authentic," and whether the two can really coexist. We talk about what trips us up when we think about taking stages of all sizes, from the dinner table (should that even be a stage or is that too sacred) to the boardroom, theaters and stadiums. We also get into why he believes nearly everyone should script and memorize their talks, even if you believe yourself to be a "natural" speaker, and why it's not memorization that kills a great talk, but rather preparation. We bust a lot of myths about the difference between persuasion, manipulation and whether either is good, bad or maybe even...massively desirable. And, we talk about what any and all of this has to do with building good relationships and living a good life. We also get personal and explore why, after so much success, Michael decided to shift gears in a major way, where he's headed with his life and how his lens on living a good life has changed since I last sat down with him. If you've been "public speaking curious," but you've struggled with fear or anxiety around it, this is a don't miss an episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • Because what the performer does is they walk on stage being prepared, and then they throw everything away, complete blank slate.

  • And what happens on stage is that what they prepared comes to them in the moment, authentically, as if it's the first time it's ever occurred.

  • Interesting fact, the one thing that terrifies most people makes this week's guest salivate with joy.

  • So what am I talking about?

  • I'm talking about actually public speaking.

  • I'm talking about taking the stage.

  • And that can be anywhere from, you know, a one to one conversation to a meeting with business associates, to standing in front of hundreds or even thousands of people and being in a position where you radiate light, where you communicate joyfully and powerfully and you're embraced and your ideas are embraced.

  • So Michael Porter is this week's guest, and he became known in the early days as an actor on stage and screen, and then moved into the world of business building.

  • Wrote a giant best selling book called book yourself Solid.

  • And he's moving into sort of a new season in his life, bringing it all together right now.

  • And he's kind of obsessed with a curiosity around what does it take to actually what he would call steal the show, which is also the topic in the name of a new book of his.

  • But it's really built around a focus, you know, how do we actually step into these moments that terrify most people?

  • Public speaking is very often listed as the number one fear.

  • So how do we step into that arena and own that arena and feel incredible and do what we're there to do?

  • That's the subject of this week's conversation with my guest, Michael Port.

  • I'm Jonathan Fields.

  • This is good life project.

  • One of the things that I wrote in steal the show was the baby doesn't care so much about what lullaby the mom is singing, the baby cares that his mom is singing it, meaning how many moms sing the same lullaby, but the baby wants to hear her mom's voice.

  • And so I don't think you need to be different to make a difference.

  • And if you have a voice, then what you're doing will come across as different to the people you're meant to serve.