Attention is Reality: The Odd Thing About Pleasure and Pain

注意力就是现实:关于快乐和痛苦的奇怪之处

Good Life Project

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2015-11-11

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You know the old question, "if a tree falls in the woods and nobody is around to hear it, did it make a sound?" What if we asked a similar question about pain, suffering, anxiety or any other "experience or emotion" that exists only in the space between our ears? What if many of the things we experienced throughout the day, whether good or bad, were less about what was happening to us, and more about where we focused our minds "while" it was happening to us? What if our reality was not just about circumstance or "thoughts," as is popular to offer in the world of personal development ("with our thoughts, we make our world")? What if reality was really about attention? In today's short and sweet GLP Riff, I make this very concrete, applying the idea to one of the most common pains out there, headaches. We talk about how shifting attention can profoundly change the way you experience pain, and potentially even eliminate it for a window of time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • So I've been wondering about this thing lately, and that is, if something exists only in your head, and then for a moment, you don't notice it anymore, does that mean that it's still there and you just stopped noticing?

  • Or does it no longer exist?

  • I know I'm getting a little bit esoteric on you, but it's actually a really practical question.

  • Let me tell you what I'm talking about.

  • The thing that comes up the most with this is the idea of pain.

  • If we stub a toe, if we break a bone, if something happens to us, we tend to think to ourselves, okay, or we feel, I'm in pain.

  • And then we look to the part of the body that's injured or sick and say, that's the source of pain, but in fact, it's not.

  • See, here's the truth about pain.

  • You can have any sort of stimulus, but the pain actually exists in your brain.

  • Pain is what happens when signals get translated in your brain to tell you that you're in pain.

  • So what happens then?

  • If the thing that's causing you pain still is there, but for a window of time, you're so focused away from it that you no longer feel it?

  • And I'll tell you why I'm asking this.

  • There have been a number of times in my life where this has happened, and I've gotten really curious.

  • So I'm somebody who, sadly, actually, pretty much for my whole life, I've gotten headaches and I've tried all sorts of things.

  • But there's also this really weird quirk that I've keyed in on over the years, and that is that I can have a crushing headache, but something can intervene.

  • Where for a window of time, from anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours, I don't notice it.

  • So here's an example.

  • Years ago, when I was teaching yoga, I was on a regular schedule, which meant that I had people showing up to me at my studio.

  • And there could be a lot of people in a wall to wall classroom on an evening, and they were there because they needed something.