The Power of Delight

快乐的力量

Good Life Project

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2015-12-02

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We spend so much time trying to "acquire" people and things. In business, we talk about "acquiring a customer," like they're a commodity we're buying at the corner store and we even associate a price with each new person. In our personal lives, we often do the same, thinking about the effort it takes to find and start a relationship with a new friend, lover or partner, yet it feels wrong to call that friend or lover or partner an "acquisition," so we come up with gentler words to remind ourselves no human actually gets to acquire or possess another human. We use that word, acquisition, by the way, because it deludes us into believing "once we've got it, it's ours for life." Hahaha! So, silly! We all know, that's not even close to reality. We don't own anyone. Not for life, not for a year, a month, an hour or a moment. We are gifted with their presence, their investment of love and energy and time and more. And that gift is something that must be nurtured, grown, tended over time or else it goes away, and so do they. We have an opportunity to continue to invest in not only the process of discovery, but the continuing process of deepening and delight. Delight, in fact, is where the greatest magic happens and it's all too often completely ignored once you're past the courting stages. What if, instead of focusing maniacally on finding and starting relationships, then letting them coast into oblivion, we spent equal if not more energy on delighting those we bring into our orbit once they're here. That's what we're talking about on this week's short and sweet GLP Riff. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • This week's good Life project riff is on the power of delight.

  • So here's my question for you.

  • What if businesses are going about growth all wrong?

  • That includes you.

  • If you're a private practice professional or somebody who just wants to build something cool.

  • So there's an interesting thing that happens with a lot of organizations.

  • They spend every waking hour and substantial line items of their budgets on customer acquisition.

  • And then once a prospect becomes a customer, they all but forget about them.

  • The common ethic, in fact, is to do the minimum necessary to keep an existing customer from leaving.

  • That's where the sad state of affairs bar has pretty much been set.

  • In a lot of the business world.

  • It's pretty messed up, to be honest, you know, not just from a feeling good about what you're doing and how you're treating other standpoints point.

  • But also it's pretty horrible for the bottom line too, when you really look at things over time, analyzing large amounts of data, a friend of mine a couple years back was able to determine that 70% to 80% of new customers were generated not by formal acquisition and marketing initiatives, but by word of mouth from the 5% of existing customers who were the most delighted with the product or service that was being offered.

  • So, Newsflash.

  • When you blow people's minds in unexpected ways on a consistent basis, give them more than they expected.

  • And check this out.

  • Actually treat them like you'd want your mom treated.

  • Assuming you love your moms, guess what happens?

  • They can't shut up about you.

  • They can't shut up about what you do, what you're creating.