2015-12-23
6 分钟So there are times when I do straight interviews, especially when I'm researching something, and there are very specific things that I'm looking to learn, very often when I'm either working on building a project or researching and prepping for a book.
But when it comes to the podcast, I don't do interviews.
I have conversations, and that's an important distinction and a pretty deliberate choice, and it comes from my deeper why in creating this media.
So part of the reason I speak with my guests is because I want to learn.
I want to hear what they have to say and draw on their life's experience.
So I ask them a lot of questions.
But the other part is that I want to enjoy the experience.
And often my guests and I were so aligned in values and interests and energy, there's a spark that kind of takes over, an organic rhythm that just kind of envelops us.
And that vibe is more of a feeling like we're two people who just met at a friend's dinner party, and we happen to find out that we're into similar things and we just want to know more and we want to go deeper.
And I love that.
And the longer term relationships, the friendships, even the collaborations that have grown out of cultivating this kind of more freeform experience, they've enriched my life in a way that a straight q and A or a quote interview just never would.
So I chose early on.
This is not a podcast driven by quote interviews.
It's a podcast fueled by conversation.
So many of the emails I've gotten over the years have shared some form of I feel almost guilty because I feel like I'm eavesdropping on a conversation between two friends, but I don't want it to stop.
And I love that.
But on occasion, I also get a note or a review from a listener who says, you know, I really love the podcast, but would you just stop talking already?
I only want to hear your guest, not you.
And I kind of chuckle because that's totally cool.
But that's also completely not what the chosen format for this podcast is.