Close the Books: On Learning, Letting Go and Lighting Up

合上书本:论学习、放手和照明

Good Life Project

自我完善

2015-12-30

11 分钟
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At the end of every year, business owners and accountants do something we might want to consider also doing in our personal lives. They "close the books." What does that mean? They look back over everything that's happened in the last 12 months, make sure it's as accurate as possible, understand what went into each debit and credit, then ask what makes sense to continue in the year to come, what makes sense to end and what makes sense to change. They look for any areas where the numbers don't seem to match up, where there's some kind of aberration or question or anomaly and try to figure out what actually happened. They reconcile the numbers and, if they can't, they place a note explaining why. Then, when they've learned what they can learn, fixed what they can fix, explained what they need to explain, they close the books. They let it all go and turn their energy to the next 12-month window, opening a new book and penning the first entry. So, here's my question... What if we did this not just in our financial lives, but in our personal lives, too? What if, at the end of every year, we created a deliberate process of: LearningReconcilingLetting go, andRefocusing How might that allow us to step into the coming year not snuffed out and battle-scarred, but lit up and filled with possibility? That's what this week's Good Life Project Riff is all about. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • It's interesting.

  • There's this concept in business.

  • It's called closing the books, and it makes a lot of sense.

  • And it came up in a conversation that I was having with somebody who was a participant in the 2015 Good Life Project immersion program, which is this sort of seven month intensive, accelerated personal and business growth training.

  • We just had about an hour long phone call a couple of days ago, and it brought this thing sailing back to me, and during that call, but she basically took the hour to.

  • She wanted to kind of walk through.

  • She wanted to do this process with me.

  • Where we started out with the first moment that we met, dove deep into an intensive retreat in Costa Rica, and then time together in Chicago and then time at camp, and at each juncture along the way, what she wanted to do was kind of, like, explore with me and say, hey, listen, this is how I experienced it.

  • These were the things where there were big surprises and big shifts in expectation.

  • Here's where there were amazing awakenings.

  • Here's where I had to let go, and here's where I really struggled and where there were challenges, and here's how I moved forward and brought what I learned into the next experience.

  • And then she would move to the next one and the next.

  • And at the end of that conversation, she said, I really just kind of wanted to walk through this with you and share the experience with you.

  • And in my mind, kind of closed the books on this, and I started to giggle.

  • And she's kind of like, what's going on?

  • I said, it's kind of funny that you mention that, because I had been planning on actually creating just a final good life project riff called closing the books.

  • So it's funny that you actually just walk me through this process and then use that exact phrase.

  • And if you've never heard the phrase before, it actually comes out of the business world.

  • And it's an accounting phrase originally, and it's basically what you do at the end of every year in business, or even in your personal accounting, is that you kind of look back over the course of the year, and you ask a series of questions.

  • You say, okay, let me look at the expense side of the equation, the debit side of my books and my finances, my accounting, and what are all the things that I spent money on?