Stop Apologizing for Crying in an Argument

停止为在争吵中哭泣道歉

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

2026-08-04

16 分钟
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What do you say when you start to cry in an argument? Absolutely nothing. In this episode, I break down exactly what to do when your emotions run high and the tears start falling during a tense conversation. We talk about why you should never apologize for crying, how to label your tears so you can keep the conversation moving, and why crying is just your body releasing tension. I also cover what to do when someone else starts crying in front of you—and why handing them a tissue or asking if they need a break is actually the worst thing you can do. Leave me a voicemail to be featured on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/ask-jefferson Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: Go to ⁠https://cozyearth.com/Jefferson⁠ and use code JEFFERSON for up to 20% off. BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/topic Join my School of Communication. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/membership Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@justaskjefferson?lang=en Follow me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffersonfisher/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • What do you say when you start to cry in an argument?

  • I'll tell you.

  • Absolutely nothing.

  • Don't you dare for one second start to apologize for the fact that you're starting to cry and you're tearing up.

  • It is exactly what your body is meant to do.

  • And in this episode, I'm going to break down,

  • if you're the person who's tearing up, what to do and say, what not to do.

  • And second of all, if you're the person who on the other side,

  • somebody starting to cry in front of you, what you can do.

  • And what not to do.

  • It is an episode that is going to touch everybody because we're humans.

  • And if you're human, you're going to find some value in this podcast.

  • Welcome to the Jefferson Fisher podcast.

  • If you're listening and find any value and the advice that I give,

  • I would be absolutely honored if wherever you're listening, you can subscribe or follow.

  • It'll take two seconds.

  • And my promise to you is to continue to put out this type of content.

  • Okay.

  • When you go into that moment, All right.

  • And I want you to picture it.