What Would I Tell My 20-something Self?

我该怎么跟我20多岁的自己说呢?

Good Life Project

自我完善

2017-05-18

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Short answer: chill out. Slightly longer answer: Change the way you measure success, and run experiments. For the next handful of years or, who knows, maybe even the next decade, use a different metric. Instead of money, power, prestige, rank, relative wealth or any of those things, elevate self-discovery as your primary measure of success. Because if you don't do it now, you'll find yourself yearning to do it 20-30 years down the road and wondering if it's too late. That's what today's Good Life Project Riff is all about. In today's short and sweet jam, we offer three critical self-discovery questions, ones to ask yourself and use to guide what you say yes or no to. Ones that may take a lot of experimentation and a solid chunk of time to answer, but once answered will set up the entire rest of your life to "succeed" on a profoundly different and far more meaningful level. Now, on to the three questions... JF P.S. Mistakes are OK. Rockstar sponsors: Today's show is supported Camp GLP. Come spend 3 1/2 days with "your people," make amazing friendships, drop the facade, reignite your vitality and learn powerful strategies and breakthrough business ideas. Learn more now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • It's kind of funny.

  • I am.

  • I'm now in my early fifties, which surprises and shocks certain people when they hear that.

  • And increasingly over the years, I've been asked sort of a variation of the same question, which is, what would you tell your 20 something self about life, about work, about love, about play, all these different things?

  • And over that same amount of time, I've sort of developed maybe a bit of a different lens on how to best use that window of your life that season, sort of your twenties.

  • So I figured I would share some ideas and a bit of a set of very basic inquiries and hope that maybe it helps people navigate that time and tap it in a way that allows them to set up the entire rest of their life to live profoundly differently.

  • I'm Jonathan Fields.

  • This is good life project.

  • So what would you tell your 20 something self about what really matters in life?

  • What piece of advice or pieces of advice would you give that version of yourself?

  • This is actually a question that I've been asked a whole lot over my time, especially in the last decade or so.

  • And I figured that's what I want to focus on today.

  • So as I sit here and record this, I am actually 51 years old.

  • And I've learned a lot, I've tried a lot, I've done a lot, and I've had an amazing opportunity to work with and to mentor a lot of people over the last few years who are in their twenties.

  • And I've been thinking, what am I actually telling them a lot?

  • And how would I have changed what I did?

  • So in my mid to early twenties, I'd gotten out of college.

  • I took a couple years off to travel and to do.

  • I was literally selling long distance telephone service door to door.

  • Wow, that was a tough job.