2017-07-24
1 小时 15 分钟And I thought I was going to die.
And suddenly I thought, wow, I think I'm going to live.
And so the dark side of goal setting and excellence is what got me to this dark place that, ironically, was the seeds of what I now see was true joy.
I had to ask myself, who am I?
Who do I want to be?
How do I want to get there?
What is joy?
Whose goals are these?
And so, ironically, in the seeds of this disaster, I found happiness, I found purpose, I found gratitude, I found altruism.
And ultimately, I found grit.
Because what I realized was I didn't have grit.
I had success and I had talent growing up, and those things were rewarded.
But I kind of protected it at all costs.
I didn't go too far out of my comfort zone.
I tried to make sure I'd shine here or shine there.
And this was the thing that kicked my butt and made me say, this is really hard, but I'm going to figure out how to get better.
So have you ever wondered how some people seem to be able to commit to something really big, really hard, really challenging, maybe years in the making, and somehow motivate themselves to just not give up, to stay with it until this incredible outcome happens?
Well, I'm really curious about that, too.
A couple years back, there was a huge buzz around this idea of grit as a critical quality of success in pretty much anything.
And it was, I think, brought to the world's attention by the researcher, Angela Duckworth.