Jordan Harbinger: Hacking Human Interaction (can it be done?)

乔丹·哈博格:黑客入侵人类互动(能做到吗?)

Good Life Project

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2017-10-09

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Jordan Harbinger is the co-founder of The Art of Charm, a renowned social dynamics expert and host of the top-rated Art of Charm podcast, where he interviews leading entrepreneurs, celebrities, authors and experts on psychology, human performance, behavioral economics and success.. Harbinger helped develop one of the leading self-development programs in the world, co-created the Mastering Social Interaction 30‑day challenge, leveraging his expertise in social capital, relationship-building and authentic rapport. A former U.S. State Department employee and Wall Street attorney who speaks five languages, Jordan has traveled extensively and found himself (on one occasion, not entirely voluntarily) in the employ various government agencies and NGOs overseas, traveled through war zones, led several trips through North Korea, and been kidnapped—twice. Underneath it all is a through-line that took some unraveling during our conversation. Harbinger, it turns out, is obsessed with decoding complex systems. His fascination led him first into technology and eventually into maybe the most challenging system of all; human social interaction. His pursuit of answers has led him to both big discoveries, and profound moments of personal and professional reckoning. That's what we explore in today's conversation. Rockstar Sponsors: Audible has the best audiobook performances, the largest library, and the most exclusive content. Learn more, start your 30-day trial and get your first Audible book free, go to Audible.com/goodlife. RXBAR Kids is a snack bar made with high-quality, real ingredients designed specifically for kids. It contains 7 grams of protein and has zero added sugar and no gluten, soy or dairy. Find at Target stores OR for 25% off your first order, visit RXBAR.com/goodlife. Are you hiring? Do you know where to post your job to find the best candidates? Unlike other job sites, ZipRecruiter doesn’t depend on candidates finding you; it finds them. And right now, GLP listeners can post jobs on ZipRecruiter for FREE, That’s right. FREE! Just go to ZipRecruiter.com/good. MVMT Watches (pronounced Movement) was founded on the belief that style shouldn’t break the bank. Classic design, quality construction and styled minimalism. Get 15% off today —WITH FREE SHIPPING and FREE RETURNS—by going to MVMT.com/good. Support for this podcast comes from abc, presenting the new drama “The Good Doctor” from the creator of House. The Good Doctor premieres September 25th, with new episodes Mondays at 10/9 Central on abc. Support for this podcast comes from abc, presenting “Kevin Probably Saves the World”, the new drama that will change the way you feel…about the Universe. New episodes every Tuesday at 10/9 Central on abc. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • Getting expelled, no big deal.

  • The cops, no big deal.

  • The FBI, not as big of a deal.

  • My parents being like, oh, my God, our son's a bad person.

  • Worst feeling ever.

  • Imagine being around 14 or 15 years old, getting a knock at the door, opening up, and seeing the FBI standing there saying, kid, we gotta talk.

  • Well, that's pretty close to the scenario that this week's guest, Jordan Harbinger, who also happens to be now the founder of the Art of Charm, the Art of Charm podcast, which is this massive, massive podcast.

  • That's the place he found himself in as a kid.

  • Turns out he was fascinated.

  • His brain works in this really interesting way with how things work.

  • He's a puzzle solver.

  • He wants to deconstruct, to reverse engineer, and then rebuild.

  • And his focus when he was younger was on computers and technology and especially communications devices, which ended up getting him in a little bit of a squeeze with the local authorities and then eventually the FBI.

  • But instead of it causing problems, he was so advanced and complex in what he was doing, he ended up actually sort of working with the FBI and advising them at a really young age.

  • In his teens, he moved on, eventually went to college, went to law school, and started practicing law.

  • And in the practice of law, realized that there was actually this bigger problem that he wanted to solve.

  • He wanted to understand how human socialization works.

  • And he's now spent pretty much his entire adult life deep in that world.

  • We track that journey.

  • We go through how he started, how he's developed his ideas, his methodology, how he start to figure out why this mattered and how it worked.