2017-11-27
1 小时 22 分钟Perhaps the key realization has been if you want to love other people fully, you actually have to figure out how to love yourself on some level.
Like, there is no mental cirque du Soleil trick that you can pull off to really get around that.
And so if you've spent a lot of your life, as I have, deeply hating or disliking parts of yourself or tolerating yourself, but viewing some type of mission as more important, and you're just a vehicle for that, there comes a time when you need to, or you should reckon with that and try to unpack it.
So ten years ago, Tim Ferriss rocketed into the public's consciousness with a book called the four hour work week exploded international bestseller.
Since then, he has written, published, sort of a string of New York Times number one best selling books, traveled around the world deconstructing performance and figuring out how humans can live better, do more, and achieve the things that they want to achieve.
Along the way, though, he's also sort of faced his own inner struggles and awakenings.
He turned 40 this year and at the same time went through a lot of struggle and lost a number of close friends.
And it led him to a lot of deep seeking and a lot of inner questioning and some big exploration.
Part of what he did was he sought advice from a lot of sort of people who he considered some of the smartest people both that he already knew and that he hoped would just share wisdom with him.
That led to his new book called Tribe of Mentors, which I strongly recommend.
It's sharing other people's wisdom, but in a really intelligent and novel way.
In today's conversation, we sit down and we go places that are very personal, very deep, sometimes dark with him, and talk about what's unfolded in his life in the last year, his own deep sense of exploration, opening, awakening to both pain, to love, connection to the soft data in life, and kind of deconstruct some of the experiences that he's been through in a really powerful way.
Really excited to share this conversation with you.
I'm Jonathan Fields and this is good life project.
Good to be hanging out.
I was kind of thinking, would we like record something maybe a year ago or something like that?
Last time since then?
It's been a hell of a year in your life.
Yeah, it really has been.
I mean, it's been a.