Ah, love.
It's a word we love.
We love the word.
We love the feeling.
We love the romance.
We love the falling in love phase of love.
We love to stay in that place for as long as possible.
We love to believe that that can be the eternity and perpetuity of our relationships.
And yet the reality is, as we deepen into loving relationships over time, things change.
Question is, what do we do about that?
What do we do with that?
And when we feel things, when relationships with significant others, with partners, with spouses, when we feel these things where we really don't want to acknowledge that we feel them and we're not supposed to be feeling them?
And what happened to the mad love?
Rather than saying, well, I guess it's just not there anymore, rather than saying, this signifies an end, rather than saying, this is something that needs to be fixed, what if there is a radical, different approach to cultivating deeply meaningful, rewarding, nourishing, rejuvenating, long term loving relationships?
Well, that's where we're going with today's guest, Susan Piver.
Susan is a dear and old friend of mine.
She is a multiple time bestselling author and Shambhala buddhist meditation teacher speaker.
And she latched onto this topic of love and shares stories of how in her own personal relationship, in her marriage, which is going on 20 years now, they hit a window where just everything was going wrong and she didn't know what to do or where to turn.
And a voice inside of her said, start at the beginning.
And that led her back to some buddhist teachers, which are profoundly relevant to all of us in the way that we can build, rebuild and sustain deeply loving and meaningful relationships.