How to Get Any Conversation UNSTUCK

如何让任何对话不再陷入僵局

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

2026-08-25

20 分钟
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When a conversation gets stuck, most people try to win. That only sinks both people deeper. In this episode, I break down how to recognize when a conversation has lost traction, name what happened without blaming the other person, and get back on track without shutting anyone down. We talk about the phrases that help you move from repeating the same argument to finding clarity, why bringing up the past is not always the problem, and how to refocus on what you are actually trying to solve together. Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/newsletter Thank you to our Sponsors: Pendulum: Go to https://www.pendulumlife.com/jefferson and use code JEFFERSON for up to 20% off your first order.Zocdoc: Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/ to find and instantly book a doctor you love today. BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/topic Join my School of Communication. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/membership Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@justaskjefferson?lang=en Follow me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffersonfisher/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • It's often that a conversation doesn't turn difficult because either of you said the wrong thing.

  • It turns difficult because the conversation got stuck.

  • How do you get a conversation unstuck?

  • Without the other person shutting down.

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  • All right, conversational quicksand.

  • That's what this episode is about.

  • You're walking along, you and the other person in the conversation, and something happens.

  • Quicksand.

  • You walk right into it and you don't even know it.

  • Remember when you thought, I don't know about you,

  • but I definitely thought quicksand was a much bigger deal, to be honest.

  • I thought there was quicksand everywhere.

  • I remember watching, it was in movies at the time.

  • It was terrifying.

  • I was like, you mean you can just walk places and you would just go fall right through it?