How To Stop Owning Your Child and Start Guiding Them | Dr. Shefali Tsabary

如何停止成为孩子的所有者并开始引导他们 | 希法丽·察巴瑞博士

The Daily Motivation

2026-07-01

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Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1945DM Dr. Shefali admits it out loud. When her daughter says "I hate you," the pull to fire back is immediate. That reaction isn't love protecting a relationship. It's ego protecting a role. She breaks down three layers of parenting. Most people never leave the first two. The third layer is where identity dies. You stop seeing a child who belongs to you. You start seeing a being who's lost, disconnected, and yearning for connection. Your job shifts. Not mother. Guide. Taking them back to themselves. Biology loads the gun. Culture pulls the trigger. But conscious parenting? That's choosing not to fire. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • Basically a staring contest where everyone loses.

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  • Sometimes I do miss the bonding time.

  • Sometimes.

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  • Connecting changes everything.

  • Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

  • This belief that parents own their children.

  • I know that's like, these are my kids, right?

  • When you're constantly choosing to have kids, did those children want to be in this world?

  • Like when, how did those souls say, I'm choosing to be with these parents?

  • Do we have that answer?

  • Yes.

  • So, Louis, you know, you're presuming the worldview of a soul, right?

  • We don't know.

  • We don't know.