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Hi, Steve.
Hi, Cheryl.
Welcome to the female power episode.
I'm so excited about this.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Absolutely.
As somebody who's married to a powerful female and was raised by one.
Yes, here we are.
And the letters we're going to consider today, on one hand, they express a sort of reality that, you know, I'm not in either of the situations that we're going to discuss.
And yet the issues around them are things that have come up over and over in my life as a girl in this culture that is really uncomfortable with ambitious girls, and as a woman in this culture that's really ambivalent about successful and strong women.
And never has this come up, I guess, more acutely than over these last few years, since Wilde did go and become a bestseller.
So many times I've been asked, and my husband Brian has been asked, how are you guys handling this as a couple?
And what they mean by that?
What they'll say is, how is Brian doing?
Poor Brian, who had the great misfortune to be married to me over these years of my success.
And it's really a two pronged question.
And the letters we're going to answer today address both of these prongs.
One is, is he jealous?
Is he threatened?