The New Fatherhood: “You Either Sort It Out or Pass It On”

新父职:要么自己解决,要么传承下去。

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

2026-05-12

38 分钟
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For generations, fathers were taught that their job was simple: protect, provide, preside. But what happens when those old rules no longer fit? In this conversation, Dr. Becky talks with writer and father Kevin Maguire ("The New Fatherhood") about the emotional transformation happening inside modern fatherhood — and why so many dads are trying to parent differently than they were parented themselves. They explore: why presence matters more than ever in parenting the hidden identity shift that happens when men become fathers why play can feel surprisingly hard for dads anger, emotional regulation, and repair the pressure men feel to disconnect from vulnerability paternal postpartum depression and why so few people talk about it how healing ourselves changes the way we show up for our kids This is an honest conversation about masculinity, parenting, emotions, and the courage it takes to break generational patterns. Kevin's new book is called The New Fatherhood: Why Everything They Told You About Being A Dad Is Wrong, and How Embracing It Will Transform Your Life. Thank you to our partners for making this episode possible: Ole Henriksen: Use the code DRBECKY30 for 30% off the Banana Bright+ Eye Crème Airbnb: Host your home or book your next stay on Airbnb Knix: Use the code GOODINSIDE for 15% off period underwear Oso & Me: Use the code OSOGOOD15 for 15% off clothes newborn through age ten Good Inside is growing up! Listen to The In-Between Years with Dr. Sheryl, for parents of teens and tweens! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • So much of the time, the issue isn't with the child.

  • The issue is with us and we have to get out of the way.

  • Oh, what I'm bringing to the table here is all of my baggage.

  • You will be forced to come to terms with so much that you haven't yet thought about and so many things that you've.

  • Kind of put into that junk drawer, that emotional junk drawer that you have in the kitchen.