2026-08-28
55 分钟your husband remind me of his name colin yeah yeah and so when god damn when you're talking
to him is there like is there something he does in particular that helps center you or helps smooth conversation
or conflict when we first started dating i was like i have these attacks that happen
and i would just prefer if you weren't in the room and he was like why
and i was like i'm just embarrassed by them i don't like anybody to see them very vulnerable they're
very hard for people to watch because i'm hurting myself and he's like well i want
to be there for you like i don't want you to like deal with this by yourself
so we started having joint tick attacks together yeah not a lot of people you date have tourette syndrome
When we think of ticks, I, you know, I've heard of Tourette's.
And so in the words, um, or phrases that there are verbal things that it's like almost,
it's understanding like a sneeze that you just, it's totally involuntary and what comes out isn't chosen.
It's just what, what's, what comes out.
And then the same way with, uh, motor skills, uh, ticks.
So I have, uh, people I know who they, they'll either is thing where they clear their.
Their throat right before they talk every single time and they don't even know that they're
really doing it so how intentional for those who go i mean can you choose
the words that you have no yeah you i don't really get to choose
so you get a pre-monitory urge before you tick so you know kind of you get a feeling
so you kind of know what you're gonna say or do um However,
when I say that to people, they also think, so you're able to control it.