Everyone knows divorce is costly. But children pay most dearly

离婚战场的战利品

Economist

2026-03-26

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  • "But what is a child between injured parents?" wrote Edna O'Brien, an Irish novelist.

  • "Only a weapon."

  • The arsenal, by that definition, is vast.

  • In America nearly a third of children will see their parents divorce before they turn 18.

  • The share of American children living in single-parent divorced households

  • is almost five times higher than it was in 1960.

  • In Britain nearly a quarter of children live with single parents—

  • though far fewer adults are divorced,

  • because they are more likely to have children without marrying first.

  • Divorce is one of the biggest social transformations of the past century.

  • Instead of telling human history in the way others might, selecting a famous war or revolution,

  • Lara Feigel, a professor at King's College London,

  • opts for a different sort of conflict-ridden setting: the courtroom.

  • "There are winners and losers here, and the child is the prize," she writes.

  • Ostensibly Ms Feigel's subject is "the secret history of mothers".

  • She uses seven subjects, from Caroline Norton to Britney Spears,

  • to show how women helped forge new laws and shape attitudes

  • concerning the right to parent after marital dissolution.

  • In fact, she writes about eight women, including herself.

  • During the pandemic Ms Feigel moved to the English countryside