Inside the Love Lab with Drs. John & Julie Gottman (Part 2)

在爱情实验室与约翰·戈特曼博士和朱莉·戈特曼博士的对话(第二部分)

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2026-03-09

35 分钟
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In Part 2 of Dr. Laurie’s conversation with researchers Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, we learn how couples can raise complaints without damaging their relationship — and how to respond constructively when a partner voices a concern. Their research shows that fighting doesn’t have to pull couples apart. When handled well, conflict can actually make relationships stronger. Further reading: Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Pushkin.

  • Hey, Happiness Lab listeners.

  • This week, we're wrapping up our mini season on the science of relationships with the second of two,

  • in case you missed it, throwback episodes, some of my favorites in the history of the Happiness Lab.

  • Today,

  • you'll get to hear the second half of my two-part conversation with husband and wife research team,

  • John and Julie Gottman.

  • a couple who spent over 50 years studying the science of love.

  • In this episode,

  • the Gottmans share what science shows about how couples can argue better and why the way you fight matters more than what you fight about.

  • If you're in a relationship, or ever hope to be, these insights are not to be missed.

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  • When we tape interviews for this show, a lot of small things can go wrong.

  • Planes fly overhead, trains rumble by, recording devices break.

  • But more often than not, the problem is usually somebody's phone going off.

  • — I turned the phone off, but...

  • — You didn't turn it off.

  • — I did, yeah.

  • — Uh-uh.