How well do you know the person lying next to you in bed?

你真的了解枕边人吗

Economist

2026-01-15

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  • If you enjoy a good yarn about a terrible husband, you have been spoilt for choice in recent years.

  • Malevolent men are everywhere on television, thrillingly dependable in their awfulness.

  • There was "Big Little Lies" (violent husband), "The Undoing" (murderous husband)

  • and "The White Lotus" (depending on the season, fraudulent, greedy, and unfaithful husbands).

  • In "Bad Sisters" four women try to rescue their sibling from not one but two psychopathic spouses.

  • The men in "All Her Fault", a recent mini-series, are either manipulative and deceitful or selfish and inept.

  • Perhaps the #MeToo movement has moved into writers' rooms.

  • Whatever the explanation, these husbands seem to be emphasising the "worse" part of "for better or for worse".

  • Now comes "Strangers", a memoir that is at once a horror story, a record of suffering and a cautionary tale.

  • Belle Burden (pictured below) begins her narrative in March 2020.

  • With New York in lockdown, she has decamped to a summer home in Martha's Vineyard

  • along with her husband, James, and two of their children.

  • They settle into a routine of cocktails and home cooking.

  • Then comes the jump scare.

  • One evening, as Ms Burden is cleaning up after dinner, she gets a voicemail message from an unknown number.

  • "I'm sorry to tell you this," a man says, "but your husband is having an affair with my wife."

  • At first James is regretful, offering Ms Burden assurances that the relationship is over

  • and that the other woman "meant nothing" to him

  • (a line that has been used in many a bad Hollywood movie and therapy session).

  • But the next morning, his demeanour has changed.