How To Break Your Family's Toxic Cycle Before It Destroys Your Relationships | Lewis Howes

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  Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

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  Next, we have the family therapist expert Jerry Wise,

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  who shares a different type of dynamic because sometimes the narcissism isn't in your partner.

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  It's in your history.

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  It's the people who raised you.

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  And he's gonna explain how to heal that childhood trauma right now.

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  People will always ask me, am I a narcissist?

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  And I'll go, do you ever feel guilty?

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  Oh yeah, all the time.

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  Then you're not.

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  You're just dysfunctional.

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  You're just dysfunctional.

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  No, right.

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  A narcissist is not gonna feel that guilt.

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  They don't feel, what have they done wrong?

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  They're always right.

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  So that, why would I feel guilt?

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  about anything or shame so if if you felt that you're probably less likely to be a narcissist

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  if you but a parent can be a narcissistic parent they don't they can abuse you they can criticize you they can but they'll never go oh that my bad that would want to apologize do that why would they apologize you made them do it you made them do it or they uh did it for your good.

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  So why would I ever need to say I'm sorry?

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