If You Want Everyone To Like You, Listen To This | Leslie John

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  Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

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  Do you ever find, did you find, do you find this pattern of people liking,

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  seeming to like you more than you like them?

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  Like people wanting to hang out with you more than?

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  Yes, this season of life for sure.

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  I mean, for many years when I didn't have friends.

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  And when I didn't have a business,

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  when I was kind of getting into the working force or the business world,

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  in order to create opportunities for yourself, you need to know lots of people.

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  If you're starting a business, you need to get customers and clients.

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  So you need to put yourself out there and meet everyone essentially that you can and offer services and help and free things to people to get in the door.

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  Then once you get clients or you have a business or whatever it might be,

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  I realized like I was giving too much to too many people and I had no energy for me.

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  And I didn't feel like I was receiving in return from enough people.

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  So I became an over giver, over share,

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  over people pleaser because I wanted everyone to like me and I wanted to feel safe emotionally.

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  And then it took the last like seven years,

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  like a swing of me learning how to create better boundaries,

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  learning how to heal deeper,

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  to not feel like I need everyone to like me or I constantly give to everyone.

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