2026-02-25
8 分钟Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.
In order to know who is right for you, you have to understand your own psychology.
You have to understand yourself.
You have to understand where your vulnerabilities lie, where your weaknesses lie,
where your strengths are, the trauma that you've been through.
you know, if you've been, if you've had a rough go at life,
then you're going to need someone who makes you feel really accepted and safe and doesn't judge you for that.
It doesn't give you a hall pass to bring that trauma in, but the reality is our passes are past.
And so understanding who's the right partner for you is not only understanding your psychology,
but getting really real with yourself because people will say, Oh, I just wish I was this person.
I'm really attracted to outdoorsy people, and I just wish I was more outdoorsy.
Oh, I could be more outdoorsy.
No, you have to be really real with yourself.
You hate the outdoors.
You might be really attracted to someone who likes the outdoors, but sorry, Charlie.
That's not going to be right for you.
You can't sleep in a tent for three nights with bugs.
It's not you.
It's not you.
You've got to be super real.