2026-02-19
22 分钟If you've ever sat down for the first time all day and your body couldn't even enjoy it
because guilt showed up,
this is for you.
See, right now, I'm sitting down in my unrealistic kitchen studio.
You know why it's unrealistic?
Because I know viscerally what it's like to do something so bold,
like sit down in your kitchen to have a sip of coffee.
What's really happening around you is you see dishes that seem to be calling your name.
You see a pile of forms right there.
Some of them are garbage.
Some of them are very important.
Permission notes or bills to pay and you know you have to go through it.
And over here is just some other visual reminder of all the things you have to do.
It's the water bottle that's broken.
You know you have to re-order it.
You debate taking out your phone.
You know there's laundry over there.
And so you don't sit down in your kitchen and everything feels
like it's a mess and you are taking care of other people.
all the time and you're exhausted and resentful and reactive and it goes on and on.