How to 'shift' your emotions

如何调整你的情绪

Life Kit

2026-02-17

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You have more power over your emotions than you think, says psychologist and neuroscientist Ethan Kross. In his book, Shift: Managing Your Emotions — So They Don't Manage You, he says there are specific tools you can use to "skillfully push" your feelings around in a way that's useful, whether that's confronting them in the moment or avoiding them until you're ready to process them. This episode originally published on Feb. 6, 2025. Follow us on Instagram: @nprlifekitSign up for our newsletter here.Have an episode idea or feedback you want to share? Email us at lifekit@npr.orgSupport the show and listen to it sponsor-free by signing up for Life Kit+ at plus.npr.org/lifekit Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Policy
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  • You're listening to Life Kit from NPR.

  • Hey everybody, it's Marielle.

  • I was working from home the other day and I had a little time before an interview,

  • so I decided to peel some potatoes for a recipe.

  • Well, I cut my finger pretty badly.

  • It hurt a lot and took a while to stop bleeding.

  • I had to jump on an interview minutes later and it turns out the incident was a good starting point.

  • For our guest, Ethan Cross, he's a psychology professor at the University of Michigan.

  • And he pointed out, we as humans rely on pain to protect us.

  • If you didn't experience physical pain a few minutes ago,

  • you might have just continued peeling and gone through your finger.

  • And it might have been a lot, lot worse.

  • So physical pain serves a function, right?

  • You probably retracted your hand.

  • Did you scream?

  • I didn't scream.

  • I definitely cursed.

  • Yeah.

  • He says we can apply this same concept to emotions.

  • Ethan is the author of a book called Shift.