2026-02-09
37 分钟You're listening to How to Be a Better Human.
I'm your host, Chris Duffy,
and today's episode was recorded in front of a live audience in Vancouver at the 2025 TED conference.
This month on the show,
we're thinking about love and who could be a better guest for a love conversation than the author of How to Find True Love,
Francesca Hoge.
Francesca is many things.
She's an author, she's a love coach, she's a former competitor on the TV show Survivor.
But above all else, Francesca is someone who really believes in the magic and potential of romance.
But at the same time, she's very realistic about what love is not.
So whether you are single and determined to stay that way,
whether you are in a committed relationship looking for love or something else entirely,
Francesca's got insights that I feel very confident are going to resonate with you.
To get us started, here's a clip from Francesca's TED Talk.
The fairy tale industrial complex.
has been lying to you.
Through a pervasive web of marketing, advertising, music, movies, and more,
it said that while you can't buy love, you can buy your worthiness of being loved.
Its commodification of romantic love as a storybook fantasy can be summed up in three simple words,
happily ever after, happiness forever, if only,