How to find true love (w/ Francesca Hogi)

如何寻觅真爱(与弗朗切斯卡·霍吉)

How to Be a Better Human

2026-02-09

37 分钟
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Love coach Francesca Hogi is dedicated to helping daters find “lasting love in the midst of a broken dating culture.” In this episode, Francesca shares her approach to analyzing romantic patterns and feeling more empowered in your love life. From discussing romantic manifestations to reflecting on bell hooks’ claim that humans are unskilled at love, Chris and Francesca talk about the ways you can be more open to finding love. Host & Guest Chris Duffy (Instagram: @chrisiduffy | https://chrisduffycomedy.com/) Francesca Hogi (Instagram: @dearfranny | Website: https://www.francescahogi.com/)  Links Humor Me by Chris Duffy - https://t.ted.com/ZGuYfcL How to Find True Love by Francesca Hogi - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1538769573 For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts Learn more about our flagship conference happening this April at attend.ted.com/podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • You're listening to How to Be a Better Human.

  • I'm your host, Chris Duffy,

  • and today's episode was recorded in front of a live audience in Vancouver at the 2025 TED conference.

  • This month on the show,

  • we're thinking about love and who could be a better guest for a love conversation than the author of How to Find True Love,

  • Francesca Hoge.

  • Francesca is many things.

  • She's an author, she's a love coach, she's a former competitor on the TV show Survivor.

  • But above all else, Francesca is someone who really believes in the magic and potential of romance.

  • But at the same time, she's very realistic about what love is not.

  • So whether you are single and determined to stay that way,

  • whether you are in a committed relationship looking for love or something else entirely,

  • Francesca's got insights that I feel very confident are going to resonate with you.

  • To get us started, here's a clip from Francesca's TED Talk.

  • The fairy tale industrial complex.

  • has been lying to you.

  • Through a pervasive web of marketing, advertising, music, movies, and more,

  • it said that while you can't buy love, you can buy your worthiness of being loved.

  • Its commodification of romantic love as a storybook fantasy can be summed up in three simple words,

  • happily ever after, happiness forever, if only,