Why Admitting 'I Don't Know' Changed Everything | Lewis Howes

承认“我不知道”为何改变了一切 | 刘易斯·豪斯

The Daily Motivation

2026-01-21

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Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1876 Lewis spent most of his life performing. Pretending to be confident when he was actually insecure. Acting like he knew things when he didn't know anything. Living inside this cage where he'd only do things he knew others would accept, terrified of being laughed at or looking foolish. But here's what shifted everything: the moment he stopped pretending, stopped beating himself up after every failure, and allowed himself to stumble and say "I don't know" out loud. That's when mentors appeared. That's when opportunities showed up differently. His ego shrank and his growth exploded because he finally gave himself permission to be seen trying and failing and making mistakes. The biggest trap isn't failing. It's fearing what other people will think when you fail. It's the judgment, the disappointment, the "I knew she couldn't do it" whispers you imagine happening behind your back. But when you let go of that imaginary need to have everything put together, when you admit you're not supposed to be perfect, something profound happens. You stop taking failure personally and start seeing it as proof you're evolving. You're not a failure because something didn't work. You're a success because you're putting in the work, getting feedback, and improving. That's where wisdom lives. That's where your entire world opens up. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • Hi,

  • my name is Lewis house and welcome to the daily motivation show Failure is not the enemy your ego is People don't fear failing They fear looking like a failure and there's a big difference there.

  • They don't want to see they don't want other people to see them fail They didn't want other people to say,

  • ah, I knew he couldn't do it.

  • I knew she was going to make a mistake.

  • She looked silly trying to do that thing.

  • That didn't really work well for him.

  • I can laugh about it with my friends now behind his back.

  • People don't fear failing.

  • They fear looking like a failure.

  • They fear being seen as not enough.

  • They fear the judgment of other people.

  • They fear disappointing other people.

  • They fear not living up to an image they created or some expectation that other people had on them.

  • It's not failure that stops people from growing.

  • It's ego.

  • It is not failure that stops people from growing.

  • It's ego.

  • And many people live their entire lives inside of this cage of like,

  • I am only going to do something that I know will be accepted by others.