Why Chasing Success Can Leave You Feeling Stuck (with David Brooks)

追逐成功为何会让你感到停滞不前(与大卫·布鲁克斯对话)

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2026-01-19

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It’s easy to fixate on the usual markers of success — your resume, your net worth, or how “impressive” you seem on paper. But how much do those things really speak to our wellbeing? And what do we miss when we only focus on them? Author and cultural commentator David Brooks reflects on what he learned when he moved beyond ambition, and shares some practical ways to get unstuck. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • When we're feeling stuck or unhappy with the way our lives are unfolding,

  • we often fixate on certain kinds of self-improvement, things like getting into shape.

  • making more money, eating healthier, or landing a promotion at work.

  • Goals like these are super common at the start of the new year.

  • But what we don't tend to hear about are goals that are less self-focused,

  • trying to become a better friend, or committing to supporting our surrounding communities.

  • Could goals like these be a more effective path to becoming unstuck in the new year?

  • Could intentionally building our character be a more happiness-inducing strategy than we think?

  • These are the questions that we'll be tackling with today's guest.

  • My name is David Brooks.

  • I am a columnist at the New York Times and a former fellow at the Jackson Institute at Yale University.

  • David is also the author of several books on the importance of character development.

  • Huge bestsellers like The Road to Character and his most recent work, How to Know a Person.

  • David's interest in character development began as a personal self-help project.

  • I'm not a naturally deep person.

  • And so I think I've read all these damn books and I go to religious services and I do all this stuff to try to make myself a little deeper than I was yesterday.

  • And one of his early realizations was that he and so many others were focused on the wrong kinds of goals when it came to living a good life.