Connect to the Good Kid Underneath the Bad Behavior

连接到坏行为之下的善良孩子

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

2025-02-04

28 分钟
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Connection is everything when it comes to parenting. When we're connected to our kids, so many things become easier. And when we're disconnected, almost everything feels harder. Today on the podcast, Dr. Becky tackles the very important topic and talks us through ways you can increase connection with your kid. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/428u0QW Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter Order Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books. For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast To listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategy Today’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb:  Let's be honest: parenting is expensive, especially around the holidays. And Dr. Becky hears all the time from parents that there are so many things they want to do that just don't fit into their budget, and it can feel kind of powerless. And then, once the holidays are over, they still end up having spent more than they usually do and feel stressed and behind. So now that the holidays are behind us, she wants to share an idea for a way to make some extra income in 2025…Hosting on Airbnb. Being an Airbnb host means that you are providing another family with an amazing experience— because I know you've created your home with a family in mind—and it's a great way to earn some extra money for all the different things you want to do this year. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at Airbnb dot com slash host. Today’s episode is brought to you by Mommy's Bliss:  The season of germs is upon us. That’s why Dr. Becky loves Mommy’s Bliss: they offer the first Clean Label Project Certified line of pain and fever medicine for Infants and Kids, as well as safe and gentle organic cough syrups. Whether your kid is struggling with a cough, a fever, or the flu, Mommy’s Bliss has a product that isn’t just safe for them–it’s also made for them. That means free of dyes, artificial flavors and corn syrups. Because when your kid isn’t feeling well, you want something that’s going to give you peace of mind and bring them relief so your family can get back to your daily routine! You can find Mommy’s Bliss at major drugstores and retailers where you shop for your family’s health.
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  • So today I want to jump into what I think is one of the most important things with our kids.

  • Connection.

  • And while we all know that word, connection.

  • I get it.

  • Connect with my kid.

  • Yep, yep.

  • I think it's actually misunderstood because Often I hear from people, oh,

  • you want me to connect with my kid when they're angry and nasty and engaging all this bad behavior?

  • And on some level, I think we've all internalized the idea that connection reinforces bad behavior.

  • And then we almost withhold it, or we find ourselves not wanting to give it.

  • And this is what I want to talk about today, because I know that in our busy lives,

  • I know that as we're dealing with the day to day of parenting,

  • the thing that makes it all more manageable is feeling more connected to our kid.

  • And figuring out what that means in little manageable ways to do that, well,

  • that's what I really want to give you by the end of this episode.

  • Because I think by the end, you'll take a deep breath and say, oh, okay, I can do that.

  • And hopefully even I'm going to do that.

  • I'm Dr.

  • Becky, and this is Good Inside.

  • We'll be back right after this.